Dear Crabby—Indecisive

Dear Crabby, It may be a little too early to start planning, but I am so ready for Thanksgiving break. I want to go home and visit my family, but I don’t know if it’s worth the trip. I am from Las Cruces, so it’s not like I’d be traveling for a full day. Unfortunately, I haven’t had to travel for a holiday break before, so I don’t know if there will be a lot of traffic. Is it even possible to leave on Wednesday instead of Thursday—when does Thanksgiving…

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Dear Crabby—Unsure

Dear Crabby, I am in a pickle. Being a freshman on campus, I have become a social butterfly, joining several clubs and organizations and making lots of new friends. It has been a wonderful experience and getting to know more people has made me feel at home. However, I’ve noticed that my friends and club members have been treating individuals unfairly. To be honest, they gossip in their groups about these individuals and the remarks are very unkind. At times, I wonder if these remarks are borderline derogatory. I am…

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Dear Crabby— The Wallflower

Dear Crabby, I’m a first semester freshman, and away from home for the first time. I was really excited about coming to college and being able to reinvent myself. I was always quiet and kind of nerdy in high school, and nobody paid a lot of attention to me. Now that I’m here, I feel like I’m still the quiet nerdy girl. I don’t go out a lot, and when I do, I tend to wander off and keep to myself. I don’t know how to be the life of…

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Dear Crabby— Ready To Change Roomies

Dear Crabby, We haven’t been in school for a whole month yet and my roommate is driving me crazy already! She does not realize how messy she is even though I tell her every day to clean up her half of the house. She always says that she will do it later but never does. She won’t wash her dishes, she won’t wash her clothes, and she won’t clean the bathroom. She waits until I’m washing my dishes to bring hers out and ask if I’ll wash them for her.…

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